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Gosh, for a minute there I thought I was on the Hallmark Card site.

Let's talk about something truly interesting.

Survey: do you swallow? Why or why not?

For the guys: does it make a difference to you?

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    Yes. I am real. And, yes, I do.

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    I swallow. The few times I haven't have been with men I didn't really know...
    I guess the reason is I'd rather not deal with the mess, and also, when dudes go down on me they don't have the choice of "tasting me" or not, so I guess I feel it's part of the experience.

    Edit* This is REAL.

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    Well I'd say the majority of the time, a bj is a predecessor to sex so let's just say it doesn't get to that point. However, for when it's not, I generally swallow. My theory is that if a guy is going down on me (and does a good job, because if he doesn't, we might not get to this point haha) then I like to finish the job right.

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    HAAAA!!!! Thank you Lord!!! Thank you Mary!!!!!!

    I almost though I'd become so horribly bored with the nonsense that I'd leave for greener spicier pastures!

    Well...regarding your question, only sometimes, if I really, truly want to flatter the beast. But I prefer to watch it spread over bumpy areas, hee.


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    Yeah, because it's not a big deal to me, but it is to him.

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    Sometimes. But I never chew.

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    Sometimes, though most of the times a bj is just foreplay so we never really get to that point.

    Keka, I'll never tire of saying this: you're a riot!

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    Donna wrote: Sometimes. But I never chew.

    Perish the thought!

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    Keka wrote: HAAAA!!!! Thank you Lord!!! Thank you Mary!!!!!! I almost though I'd become so horribly bored with the nonsense that I'd leave for greener spicier pastures! Well...regarding your question, only sometimes, if I really, truly want to flatter the beast. But I prefer to watch it spread over bumpy areas, hee.

    The bumpy areas. Yeah. This IS fun, isn't it?

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    Cynthia wrote: Yup. For the protein.

    Funny we've never seen this in any of the famous diets as a nutritional supplement. Perhaps we're on to something??

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    What would we do without you Mary.

    Yes, but usually when suprised!

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    It almost seems like common courtesy unless they ask to finish elsewhere. To not seems kind of like when a guy is going down on you, and then stops because he thinks you're done and looks up at you with that "can I come up now" look.

    Excuse me sir, but did I tell you to stop? No? Then keep going! Get back down there!

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    Cane wrote: What would we do without you Mary. Yes, but usually when suprised!


    The mental picture you painted made me spit my tea through my nose.

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    ehvwon wrote: Yeah, because it's not a big deal to me, but it is to him.

    Yeah, the majority of men feel that way....I mean, not that I would know that firsthand.

    Well, yeah, Ok, I kinda wood. (Pun definitely intended). ;-)

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    Carly wrote: It almost seems like common courtesy unless they ask to finish elsewhere. To not seems kind of like when a guy is going down on you, and then stops because he thinks you're done and looks up at you with that "can I come up now" look. Excuse me sir, but did I tell you to stop? No? Then keep going! Get back down there!

    So true, Carly. That's why I always try to get "mine" first!

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    Carly wrote: It almost seems like common courtesy unless they ask to finish elsewhere. To not seems kind of like when a guy is going down on you, and then stops because he thinks you're done and looks up at you with that "can I come up now" look. Excuse me sir, but did I tell you to stop? No? Then keep going! Get back down there!

    I don't think it's rude not to. If you don't like it, you should never feel like you have to. That goes with anything in the bedroom (in my opinion) regardless of what it is, if you ain't into it, you shouldn't have to do it. Eventually you'll find the right people to "play with."

    I dated a guy who preferred me not to swallow, and even tho I hated the mess, I let him do what made him comfortable.

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    Never.

    I'm saving that for marriage.

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    In the book Once is Not Enough by Jaqueline Suzanne - she actually had one of the characters save up 'juices' in the fridge to use as a protein face masque!

    And had her dating a man just cause he contributed so much!

    A new one for your beauty regimine!

    She DIDN'T swallow!

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    Keka wrote: The mental picture you painted made me spit my tea through my nose.

    hahaha....sometimes you just can't tell when those suckers are gonna pop off...you get caught off guard.

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    OMG! Mary, you sure know how to change the subject. Can I plead the fifth?

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    Phoenix wrote: In the book Once is Not Enough by Jaqueline Suzanne - she actually had one of the characters save up 'juices' in the fridge to use as a protein face masque! And had her dating a man just cause he contributed so much! A new one for your beauty regimine! She DIDN'T swallow!

    I read that book and remember that! And I have heard of people actually doing that and using it as face mask. Evidently, it has some age defying qualities or something.

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    Phoenix wrote: In the book Once is Not Enough by Jaqueline Suzanne - she actually had one of the characters save up 'juices' in the fridge to use as a protein face masque! And had her dating a man just cause he contributed so much! A new one for your beauty regimine! She DIDN'T swallow!

    Wow! That's sorta creepy. I can't imagine looking inside a friends fridge and seeing mason jars filled with "men juices". ewww

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    Lacy wrote: OMG! Mary, you sure know how to change the subject. Can I plead the fifth?

    Are sure that shouldn't be a plea of "no contest"? ;-)

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    Franny wrote: I don't think it's rude not to. If you don't like it, you should never feel like you have to. That goes with anything in the bedroom (in my opinion) regardless of what it is, if you ain't into it, you shouldn't have to do it. Eventually you'll find the right people to "play with." I dated a guy who preferred me not to swallow, and even tho I hated the mess, I let him do what made him comfortable.

    I never said it was rude. I said it seemed like common courtesy to me!

    And Mary - I'm a big believer in getting mine first too when I can! I'm always up for reciprocating, and then he can get back down there again while he is recovering for round 2!

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    NEVER. I think it's repulsing. I'd probably gag and puke all over both of us.

    When I was in H/S, an older friend told me I had to swallow. So I always did, until one day, many years later a great man actually warned me before he was about to. I never knew I had an option, and once I realized there was an option, I never did it again.

    Let's just say I'm making up for lost time.

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    Lela wrote: Are sure that shouldn't be a plea of "no contest"? ;-)

    Whatever it's called; ha ha ha Somtimes these questions shock me! But so much fun!

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    Carly wrote: I never said it was rude. I said it seemed like common courtesy to me! And Mary - I'm a big believer in getting mine first too when I can! I'm always up for reciprocating, and then he can get back down there again while he is recovering for round 2!

    Great minds think alike, Carly!

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    If she does, she must really likes me. Either way, don't try and kiss me for a 24 hours.

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    Lela wrote: Funny we've never seen this in any of the famous diets as a nutritional supplement. Perhaps we're on to something??

    Surely there are some vital enzymes or something in there.

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    J. Cole wrote: If she does, she must really likes me. Either way, don't try and kiss me for a 24 hours.

    Ha I hope you're joking about the kissing, because you probably expect her to kiss you after being down in her Lady Business!

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    Carly wrote: Ha I hope you're joking about the kissing, because you probably expect her to kiss you after being down in her Lady Business!

    hahaha

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    Sam wrote: NEVER. I think it's repulsing. I'd probably gag and puke all over both of us. When I was in H/S, an older friend told me I had to swallow. So I always did, until one day, many years later a great man actually warned me before he was about to. I never knew I had an option, and once I realized there was an option, I never did it again. Let's just say I'm making up for lost time.

    It's truly not for everyone, that's for sure!

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    J. Cole wrote: If she does, she must really likes me. Either way, don't try and kiss me for a 24 hours.

    I disagree with "she must really like me", however, am not willing to site examples.

    Re: the kissing - chicken.

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    Carly wrote: Ha I hope you're joking about the kissing, because you probably expect her to kiss you after being down in her Lady Business!

    Next day rule Carly. It goes both ways.

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    Lela wrote: I read that book and remember that! And I have heard of people actually doing that and using it as face mask. Evidently, it has some age defying qualities or something.

    Aha - so if we see women - or men for that matter! - who age well without surgery... we know their secret!!!

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    You're awesome Mary...

    To answer your question, It doesn't really matter to me.
    The act of getting me to that point where you'd have to make that decision is all I care about.

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    Lela wrote: I disagree with "she must really like me", however, am not willing to site examples. Re: the kissing - chicken.

    Lol. Yeah, you're right. She could just like doing it.

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    J. Cole wrote: If she does, she must really likes me. Either way, don't try and kiss me for a 24 hours.

    Honey - if you don't wanna taste it, then neither do we!

    ALWAYS kisses after! :-)

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    Brian wrote: You're awesome Mary... To answer your question, It doesn't really matter to me. The act of getting me to that point where you'd have to make that decision is all I care about.

    GREAT point, Brian!!

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    I'm married, so I have no idea what this question means. ;)

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    J. Cole wrote: If she does, she must really likes me. Either way, don't try and kiss me for a 24 hours.

    C'mon Jayyy
    24 hour rule? If you're gonna be freaky be all the way freaky...I'd definitely kiss her, hell she kisses me when I've finished exploring her bellow the equator!

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    Lela wrote: Great minds think alike, Carly!

    Mary - thanks for livening up the site with your saucy question you Vixen!

    This is as much fun as the dirty limerick contest!

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    Cane wrote: hahaha

    Well it's true! Everything in sex is messy and dirty and quite frankly, should be laughed at.

    If a guy won't kiss me after I put in all that effort (after all, to quote Samantha from Sex and The City, They don't call it a job for nothing!) then that is the LAST time he's getting anywhere near my lady business, or any part of me!

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    Brian wrote: C'mon Jayyy 24 hour rule? If you're gonna be freaky be all the way freaky...I'd definitely kiss her, hell she kisses me when I've finished exploring her bellow the equator!

    Good man!!!

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    Oh, wait. I swallowed some mojitos last night, and some chocolate. Hub didn't seem to notice.

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    Carly wrote: Well it's true! Everything in sex is messy and dirty and quite frankly, should be laughed at. If a guy won't kiss me after I put in all that effort (after all, to quote Samantha from Sex and The City, They don't call it a job for nothing!) then that is the LAST time he's getting anywhere near my lady business, or any part of me!

    Yes! That is so true and I totally agree.

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    Brian wrote: C'mon Jayyy 24 hour rule? If you're gonna be freaky be all the way freaky...I'd definitely kiss her, hell she kisses me when I've finished exploring her bellow the equator!

    Yeah, I feel you B. It really isn't 24 hours. That was a joke. But it's definitely longer than 24 minutes. I don't know, I guess I'm not as freaky as most.

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    Phoenix wrote: Aha - so if we see women - or men for that matter! - who age well without surgery... we know their secret!!!

    Ha! They have that "cum hither" look!

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    Carly wrote: Well it's true! Everything in sex is messy and dirty and quite frankly, should be laughed at. If a guy won't kiss me after I put in all that effort (after all, to quote Samantha from Sex and The City, They don't call it a job for nothing!) then that is the LAST time he's getting anywhere near my lady business, or any part of me!

    I don't regard it as messy or dirty!! Well, maybe kinda sorta, but in a very good way!

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    J. Cole wrote: Yeah, I feel you B. It really isn't 24 hours. That was a joke. But it's definitely longer than 24 minutes. I don't know, I guess I'm not as freaky as most.

    I mean I can understand not wanting to kiss a girl after she swallows someone else's, how do I put this delicately,... man juice. But it's yours!

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    It's been so long, I don't remember.

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    Lela wrote: I don't regard it as messy or dirty!! Well, maybe kinda sorta, but in a very good way!

    Oh I meant messy and dirty in the best possible way Mary! If it wasn't, it'd be boring and I could "take care of myself" better by myself! The whole point of bringing someone else into the equation is FOR the dirtiness and all that fun stuff!

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    Ain't no thang.
    I'm on the same page as Brian.

    PS...there's a fairly humorous Dane Cook standup bit about all of this.
    ch ch check it out


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    J. Cole wrote: Yeah, I feel you B. It really isn't 24 hours. That was a joke. But it's definitely longer than 24 minutes. I don't know, I guess I'm not as freaky as most.

    Shit ...she wouldn't have to wait 24 seconds...
    That sexy face she makes while she's doin it is enough to drive me completely mad with lust!

    I don't understand all this not finishing the bj stuff though!!!
    So what if he cums...I'd be ready to go again right after that.


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    Brian wrote: Shit ...she wouldn't have to wait 24 seconds... That sexy face she makes while she's doin it is enough to drive me completely mad with lust! I don't understand all this not finishing the bj stuff though!!! So what if he cums...I'd be ready to go again right after that.

    Now...where do you live, Brian???

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    Brian wrote: Shit ...she wouldn't have to wait 24 seconds... That sexy face she makes while she's doin it is enough to drive me completely mad with lust! I don't understand all this not finishing the bj stuff though!!! So what if he cums...I'd be ready to go again right after that.

    And, how do you feel about Cougars?

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    Brian wrote: Shit ...she wouldn't have to wait 24 seconds... That sexy face she makes while she's doin it is enough to drive me completely mad with lust! I don't understand all this not finishing the bj stuff though!!! So what if he cums...I'd be ready to go again right after that.

    Brian oh Brian!

    Please move to SF! We need more men like you. The world needs more men like you.

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    Lela wrote: I don't regard it as messy or dirty!! Well, maybe kinda sorta, but in a very good way!

    Why is it considered dirty at all...
    If it wasn't for this type of stuff none of us would be here now!
    Lets be honest everyone...our parents probably didn't just do some run-of-the-mill missionary B.S. when we were conceived.

    The stork didn't drop you off either

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    Lela wrote: And, how do you feel about Cougars?

    Get in line.

    I'm a little cougar.
    Meow.

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    Sam wrote: Get in line. I'm a little cougar. Meow.

    I hope to one day be a cougar!

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    Lela wrote: And, how do you feel about Cougars?

    No such thing as a cougar in my mind...just an older more experienced sexy woman

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    We needed this thread!
    I'm over here crying laughing

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    Brian wrote: No such thing as a cougar in my mind...just an older more experienced sexy woman

    Word.

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    Cane wrote: We needed this thread! I'm over here crying laughing

    Nothing like a little bj talk to get things blowing along, eh Cane?

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    Brian wrote: No such thing as a cougar in my mind...just an older more experienced sexy woman

    DAMN!

    So minus the rain this weekend, SF is really a lovely city.

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    I miss those NY salt sticks they sell at bagel stores.
    OH yes, swallow.

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    Cane wrote: We needed this thread! I'm over here crying laughing

    Me too...
    I'm starting to understand the Vixies more after this one.
    No more PG posts for me.

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    ehvwon wrote: Word.

    You know, I could probably suck the chrome off of a tralier hitch, however, I have no idea what "Word" means. What DOES that mean?

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    Lela wrote: Great minds think alike, Carly!

    I'm just saying, I think it's interesting that many girls feel they have to, even if the don't want to. The idea that swallowing is common courtesy, on principle irks me a bit.

    I didn't mean to put words in anyone's mouth!

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    Lela wrote: You know, I could probably suck the chrome off of a tralier hitch, however, I have no idea what "Word" means. What DOES that mean?

    OMG Mary you are killing me....this goes down as one of the best threads.

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    Brian wrote: Me too... I'm starting to understand the Vixies more after this one. No more PG posts for me.

    hahaha

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    Lela wrote: You know, I could probably suck the chrome off of a tralier hitch, however, I have no idea what "Word" means. What DOES that mean?

    I think it means, "speak it."

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    ehvwon wrote: I think it means, "speak it."

    Ooooooooooooo! Ok. I get it now! Thank you!!!

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    Cane wrote: OMG Mary you are killing me....this goes down as one of the best threads.

    Hey. We gotta have fun, ya know???

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    ehvwon wrote: I think it means, "speak it."

    It means, "Definitely!" or "Aint that the truth!"

    When I use it, I think of it like saying, "Yup."

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    Yeah, if we're dating. If not, I usually spit. If the guy is a kind of jerk (like he has character flaws, but he's hot, and I want some action), I spit on their shirt/pants.

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    Staci wrote: Yeah, if we're dating. If not, I usually spit. If the guy is a kind of jerk (like he has character flaws, but he's hot, and I want some action), I spit on their shirt/pants.

    Staci, you'd spit it on their shirt/pants? ....that's hilarious

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    Staci wrote: Yeah, if we're dating. If not, I usually spit. If the guy is a kind of jerk (like he has character flaws, but he's hot, and I want some action), I spit on their shirt/pants.

    What? They're not naked???

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    Staci wrote: Yeah, if we're dating. If not, I usually spit. If the guy is a kind of jerk (like he has character flaws, but he's hot, and I want some action), I spit on their shirt/pants.

    That is amazing. I'm going to have to give that one a try!

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    Carly wrote: That is amazing. I'm going to have to give that one a try!

    I don't know...if he's a jerk....cute or not...I'm not gonna go down on him. He gets no sweet treat from me!

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    Sam wrote: It means, "Definitely!" or "Aint that the truth!" When I use it, I think of it like saying, "Yup."

    Yep.

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    Staci wrote: Yeah, if we're dating. If not, I usually spit. If the guy is a kind of jerk (like he has character flaws, but he's hot, and I want some action), I spit on their shirt/pants.

    Staci, if he's a jerk, don't go down on him at all. Let him go down on you, then spit on his shirt and pants while he's not looking.

    Did I just say that?

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    Staci wrote: Yeah, if we're dating. If not, I usually spit. If the guy is a kind of jerk (like he has character flaws, but he's hot, and I want some action), I spit on their shirt/pants.

    Ummm, Lovely Miss Staci. This is giving me a whole new window into virginity in the 21st century. It includes blowing guys you aren't even dating? Wow. Thanks for the update. Fascinating.

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    Oh my! I told myself I would not visit this site any longer and the day I decide to go in and delete my pic, I see this post....Mary, you are a BAD BAD lady! I love it! :-D

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    Betty wrote: Oh my! I told myself I would not visit this site any longer and the day I decide to go in and delete my pic, I see this post....Mary, you are a BAD BAD lady! I love it! :-D

    Stick around, Betty! It's fun here!

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    G
    Sure, why not, if he likes it...

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    Cynthia wrote: Ummm, Lovely Miss Staci. This is giving me a whole new window into virginity in the 21st century. It includes blowing guys you aren't even dating? Wow. Thanks for the update. Fascinating.

    Wow, judge much?

    And in general... why not? I remember someone here (Maddie maybe?) saying you're already down there, your mouth is already down there, what's the difference?

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    LK wrote: Wow, judge much? And in general... why not? I remember someone here (Maddie maybe?) saying you're already down there, your mouth is already down there, what's the difference?

    Not judging. Just intrigued.

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    Cynthia wrote: Not judging. Just intrigued.


    Well, let me give you a quick update for that curiosity.

    It used to be (or seemed) simple, but newsflash! It ain't. Cynthia, there are as many colors and tones to sexual relationships as those of hundreds of rainbows lined together.


    Many, many, MANY ways in which two human beings might engage in sexual action without specific definitions as to what they have, without entering on the old adage of either belonging to the "pure" or "corrupted" stratosphere.

    The world is getting increasingly complex and fuller with options, and as time goes by, the sh*t doesn't get any better.

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    Staci wrote: Yeah, if we're dating. If not, I usually spit. If the guy is a kind of jerk (like he has character flaws, but he's hot, and I want some action), I spit on their shirt/pants.

    Nice one!

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    Betty wrote: Oh my! I told myself I would not visit this site any longer and the day I decide to go in and delete my pic, I see this post....Mary, you are a BAD BAD lady! I love it! :-D

    Welcome back! Join the fun!!

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    Cane wrote: I don't know...if he's a jerk....cute or not...I'm not gonna go down on him. He gets no sweet treat from me!

    I love shit-talkers. I can fire comment after comment with anyone. If I'm feeling extra ansy (usually a few days before my period), I love it when guys visit "my area." I usually have to return the favor, so I do, but I remember they're nothing special in my eyes, so, out it goes!

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    Cynthia wrote: Ummm, Lovely Miss Staci. This is giving me a whole new window into virginity in the 21st century. It includes blowing guys you aren't even dating? Wow. Thanks for the update. Fascinating.

    It doesn't make much sense, does it? I never did it until last year. The guy I had been with was so patience, and, I got a guilt-trip about it a lot. I said I'd give it a try, so I did.

    Now, for people after him, it was just me coming to terms with this new skill I acquired.

    P.S. I didn't think you were judging. No worries here!

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    Phoenix wrote: Welcome back! Join the fun!!

    well this may be gettin off track because it doesnt involve swallowin or spittin ;-) i prefer watching him play with himself while i provide the visual...

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    Geez, I missed all the good stuff lately.

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    It made a difference to my friend, Phil Capistrano. He was with a woman who swallowed but they broke up and he could never find a woman who gulped the way she did.

    After many years of pursuing his former love, they got back together. And, you guessed it, the swallows came back to Capistrano.

    My preference is not only that a woman swallow but that before she does, she takes out a toothbrush and brushes her teeth with it. That way, she gets her Close Up.

    As to men who swallow women, unlike Bill Clinton's experience with Mary Jane, not only have I swallowed I have inhaled.

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    I'm not really concerned about where I finish. There are many places to finish. Get me there however you want, just get me there....

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    Ervin wrote: I'm not really concerned about where I finish. There are many places to finish. Get me there however you want, just get me there....

    Thats what I'm talkin about

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    Betty wrote: well this may be gettin off track because it doesnt involve swallowin or spittin ;-) i prefer watching him play with himself while i provide the visual...

    So ummm...hey B, you um wanna umm meet sometime?

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    Betty wrote: well this may be gettin off track because it doesnt involve swallowin or spittin ;-) i prefer watching him play with himself while i provide the visual...

    That's friggin' hot.

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    Ervin wrote: That's friggin' hot.

    Yeah I know!

    whew!!! I need a cold shower

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    Andrew Hunt wrote: Ain't no thang. I'm on the same page as Brian. PS...there's a fairly humorous Dane Cook standup bit about all of this. ch ch check it out

    I'm with you guys on this one and yeah that Dane Cook skit is awesome!

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    Betty wrote: well this may be gettin off track because it doesnt involve swallowin or spittin ;-) i prefer watching him play with himself while i provide the visual...

    I am not going to lie, I could see that happening.

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    Staci wrote: It doesn't make much sense, does it? I never did it until last year. The guy I had been with was so patience, and, I got a guilt-trip about it a lot. I said I'd give it a try, so I did. Now, for people after him, it was just me coming to terms with this new skill I acquired. P.S. I didn't think you were judging. No worries here!

    Congratulations on your new skill, honey! Here's to a lifetime of learning...

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    Betty wrote: well this may be gettin off track because it doesnt involve swallowin or spittin ;-) i prefer watching him play with himself while i provide the visual...

    I'm thinking of poor old Anon, awash in regret.

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    Keka wrote: Well, let me give you a quick update for that curiosity. It used to be (or seemed) simple, but newsflash! It ain't. Cynthia, there are as many colors and tones to sexual relationships as those of hundreds of rainbows lined together. Many, many, MANY ways in which two human beings might engage in sexual action without specific definitions as to what they have, without entering on the old adage of either belonging to the "pure" or "corrupted" stratosphere. The world is getting increasingly complex and fuller with options, and as time goes by, the sh*t doesn't get any better.

    "The world is getting increasingly complex and fuller with options, and as time goes by, the sh*t doesn't get any better," says Keka.

    Keka--are you approving or lamenting these developments? Or just noting them?


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    Cynthia wrote: "The world is getting increasingly complex and fuller with options, and as time goes by, the sh*t doesn't get any better," says Keka. Keka--are you approving or lamenting these developments? Or just noting them?


    None of it. I'm a matter of fact kinda girl.

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    Sorry I am late to the ball, but don't I look fab? (kidding)

    Mary, to answer your Q, I would have to say it just depends: sometimes yes, sometimes no.

    I want to know more about this facial business. It reminds me of the once-popular Egg-white Facials we gave ourselves in the 80's.

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    Blow jobs are foreplay. If you get to the point where you have to swallow, then you don't get to have sex.


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    Ervin wrote: That's friggin' hot.

    Im jus sayin

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    Yes, and you said it well, Betty. ;)

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    ..swallow what??? will somebody please fill me in????????????

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    Yep! Saves clean-up time.

    Note for Vixmen: Offering a glass of water after your BJ-giver swallows = bonus bedroom points. :)

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    Ashley wrote: Yep! Saves clean-up time. Note for Vixmen: Offering a glass of water after your BJ-giver swallows = bonus bedroom points. :)

    Hehe, thanks for the tip, Ashley. I had never really thought about having a glass of water nearby to offer, but it's so obvious. Great tip!

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    Ervin wrote: Hehe, thanks for the tip, Ashley. I had never really thought about having a glass of water nearby to offer, but it's so obvious. Great tip!

    Champagne = double points.

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