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AV on pubic hair.

What do you do with it?

do you...

Color it, shave it off, wax it, laser it, trim it like a topiary, or let it grow like a miniature forest?

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    Lovely miniature forest down yonder...

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    I let my husband graze on it like a cow.

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    Trim it like a topiary.

    Bonsai Bush!!!

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    Note to self: Never watch video's on AV when your child is on your lap.

    Jezum.

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    T.M. wrote: Note to self: Never watch video's on AV when your child is on your lap. Jezum.

    lol...sorry. I should've said nsfw.

    my bad

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    I really want to dye my pubes shocking pink...


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    that video is disturbing. i'm traumatized.

    please share: what does pmsl mean? also nsfw?

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    pmsl - pissing myself laughing
    nsfw - not safe for work - although in the case of that video, it should just read - disgusting and unnecessary.

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    T.M. wrote: pmsl - pissing myself laughing nsfw - not safe for work - although in the case of that video, it should just read - disgusting and unnecessary.

    spoilsport...

    don't be such a bebe, TM. :P

    hey does anyone here use one of those electric epilators?
    I was thinking about buying one. I hear they're not (quite) as bad as waxing, and they are easier and cleaner. (and cheaper, on the whole)

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    I would think you would be somewhat limited in wardrobe choices. Full skirts and knickerless.....

    A bit limited in activities as well.

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    Claire wrote: I would think you would be somewhat limited in wardrobe choices. Full skirts and knickerless..... A bit limited in activities as well.

    what, with a pink hoo ha?

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    Julia wrote: spoilsport... don't be such a bebe, TM. :P hey does anyone here use one of those electric epilators? I was thinking about buying one. I hear they're not (quite) as bad as waxing, and they are easier and cleaner. (and cheaper, on the whole)

    Quit editing, joolia.

    Excuse me for not wanting to get on here and see a bunch of bearded (literally) clams walking up and down a runway.

    Especially in full viewing range of my child.

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    T.M. wrote: Quit editing, joolia. Excuse me for not wanting to get on here and see a bunch of bearded (literally) clams walking up and down a runway. Especially in full viewing range of my child.

    How was I to know you had a kid in your lap? AV isn't exactly something I would be looking at in front of a kid, anyway.


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    Why? It's an advice site, not a pornographic smut fest. Most everything on here is to be read and though my child is smart, at 17 months she isn't quite capable of reading so up until your video, it was relatively safe to glance at things on here while she happily plays with her toys.


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    Julia wrote: what, with a pink hoo ha?

    I was thinking more of some of the more elaborate 'do's. Wouldn't want to spoil any of the "artistry".

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    Claire wrote: I was thinking more of some of the more elaborate 'do's. Wouldn't want to spoil any of the "artistry".

    I thought the video was a joke when I first saw it. Then I saw them on the runway and figured it might be legit. Bizarre, but legit.

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    Julia wrote: How was I to know you had a kid in your lap? AV isn't exactly something I would be looking at in front of a kid, anyway.

    Why? Because a toddler can read?

    I also think that we should remind e/o occasionally that a few of us read this in the workplace. Some of value our jobs :o)

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    In response to TM and to the people who are at work....we DO need some ground rules here.

    So please, if you are posting anything you wouldn't want to be seen watching in front of a crowd at work or in front of children......

    WARN US!!!!!

    It's only fair. Also don't use abbreviations just in case.

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    I keep it shaped and trimmed. I just bought a new tool that I'm looking forward to using. It is the Remington Trim & Shape. It is a mini shaver and has trimmer attachments.

    I've only had one Brasilian in my life-- for my honeymoon. I loved it but I haven't scheduled another one because I'd rather save my $85 + tip and because it hurts.

    I think I'll try to make a heart shape.

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    Julia wrote: spoilsport... don't be such a bebe, TM. :P hey does anyone here use one of those electric epilators? I was thinking about buying one. I hear they're not (quite) as bad as waxing, and they are easier and cleaner. (and cheaper, on the whole)

    Epilators kinda painful but very effective. Don't try it on your cooch.

    Not good for fine hairs though. The fine hairs tend to break off. My leg hairs are too fine so waxing works better for that.
    I use it only on my underarms.

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    Claire wrote: In response to TM and to the people who are at work....we DO need some ground rules here. So please, if you are posting anything you wouldn't want to be seen watching in front of a crowd at work or in front of children...... WARN US!!!!! It's only fair. Also don't use abbreviations just in case.

    okay.

    I already apologized for not putting some caption on it anyway.
    It's over, TM. I had no idea anyone would be so offended by such ridiculous nudity.



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    Raven wrote: I keep it shaped and trimmed. I just bought a new tool that I'm looking forward to using. It is the Remington Trim & Shape. It is a mini shaver and has trimmer attachments. I've only had one Brasilian in my life-- for my honeymoon. I loved it but I haven't scheduled another one because I'd rather save my $85 + tip and because it hurts. I think I'll try to make a heart shape.

    awww. I successfully did a heart shape with just a plain razor. It took some maneuvering, though.

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    Oh come on, Ladies!

    That video was hardly pornographic!

    Ridiculous and gratuitous, maybe. But even I was contemplating a feathered bikini after it was over.

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    Blondie wrote: Oh come on, Ladies! That video was hardly pornographic! Ridiculous and gratuitous, maybe. But even I was contemplating a feathered bikini after it was over.

    Thank you Blondie, for being the voice of reason here.

    There was absolutely no porn in that video. I would not have posted porn on here anyway.

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    nobody called it porn.

    people are seriously running out of ideas in the fashion industry if thats what it's coming to. for 3 years that lady grew it out??? insane and disgusting sowwyyyyyy

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    Oh stop being defensive... no it isn't porn, no it isn't smut, but it IS inappropriate for an advice site, no? It's fine to share a video, ANY video, but maybe some should be links with a slight description of what the viewer is about to see.

    That way little oopsies don't happen. I'm not offended by seeing things like that, but I get a bit pissy when it's unexpected and my kid can see it.

    That's all. No hard feelings, no bitchery, just asking for consideration.

    I do hope you can at least see where I'm coming from, and others at work or in a place where they are not alone.

    I'm all for boobies and big scary bushes.

    Side note... that peacock bush left me speechless.

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    Bella wrote: nobody called it porn. people are seriously running out of ideas in the fashion industry if thats what it's coming to. for 3 years that lady grew it out??? insane and disgusting sowwyyyyyy

    whoah whoah...That was her actual hair? I thought it was just a ridiculous merkin.

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    I have no class and even I know it was in bad taste!

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    Julia wrote: whoah whoah...That was her actual hair? I thought it was just a ridiculous merkin.

    He said actual hair, and they used special minerals to grow it out.

    My big problem with jungle fever crotches... imagine the mess during menstruation.

    How do you have sex with that?

    The clean up would take hours.

    People have too much time on their hands. With their hands.

    Whatev.


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    Amy wrote: I have no class and even I know it was in bad taste!

    Miss Winehouse, every aspect of your being is in bad taste.

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    And I still kindof want a feather bikini.

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    Julia wrote: Miss Winehouse, every aspect of your being is in bad taste.

    Amy Winehouse has one of the best voices I've ever heard. And I don't say that lightly.

    I LIKE a lot of music. It is very, very rare for me to think a musician is actually good.

    Amy Winehouse is an exceptionally good musician.

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    Darlings, Fashion is SUPPOSED to provoke and inspire. All good art does this.

    If you are concerned about your kid or your Boss seeing inappropriate things on your computer, then maybe you shouldn't be surfing the net whilst at work or with your kid on your lap. Especially when the heading is titled "Pubic hair".

    I just posted a nude picture of Madonna on another thread and no one is up in arms over that.

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    Maggie wrote: Amy Winehouse has one of the best voices I've ever heard. And I don't say that lightly. I LIKE a lot of music. It is very, very rare for me to think a musician is actually good. Amy Winehouse is an exceptionally good musician.

    I think there is some speculation as to whether the celebrities on AV aren't just people posing as celebrities. It would be funny if they were real, though. Like they knew nobody would believe it was actually them.

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    Blondie wrote: Darlings, Fashion is SUPPOSED to provoke and inspire. All good art does this. If you are concerned about your kid or your Boss seeing inappropriate things on your computer, then maybe you shouldn't be surfing the net whilst at work or with your kid on your lap. Especially when the heading is titled "Pubic hair". I just posted a nude picture of Madonna on another thread and no one is up in arms over that.

    Amen. overreacting is never attractive. I was wondering why you didn't get a few naysayers about that picture, too...

    why only me, today?

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    Blondie wrote: Darlings, Fashion is SUPPOSED to provoke and inspire. All good art does this. If you are concerned about your kid or your Boss seeing inappropriate things on your computer, then maybe you shouldn't be surfing the net whilst at work or with your kid on your lap. Especially when the heading is titled "Pubic hair". I just posted a nude picture of Madonna on another thread and no one is up in arms over that.

    Thank you very much! That is the only pic I got and I love it!

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    I'll comment on this video after I go home and see it, since I'm still at work!

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    Raven wrote: Thank you very much! That is the only pic I got and I love it!

    I just posted another picture for you. I don't think it will be of much assistance, though...

    I just found it amusing.


    :P

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    Whistlebait wrote: I'll comment on this video after I go home and see it, since I'm still at work!

    be warned. There is pubic hair and small model boobs involved.


    and lots and lots of anamatronic peacock feathers

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    Julia wrote: Amen. overreacting is never attractive. I was wondering why you didn't get a few naysayers about that picture, too... why only me, today?

    I got your back, Lovie.

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    Blondie wrote: I got your back, Lovie.

    danke shein.

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    just making a point. yay nudity!

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    ehvwon wrote:

    <3 tee heeing currently. Was the comment in reference to me, perchance?

    If I am to be accused of anything, it wouldn't be immaturity...

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    ehvwon wrote:

    I think perhaps you need to read through some of your comments of the last few days.

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    Whoa...the full moon and its influences.

    I wax it all, keep it clean, just a bit on front for decor purposes. I do it myself since I was about 17.

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    ehvwon wrote:

    So nudity is offensive, but asking questions about penis size and whether we like our men cut or uncut is not offensive?

    And mature?

    Okay.

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    Blondie wrote: So nudity is offensive, but asking questions about penis size and whether we like our men cut or uncut is not offensive? And mature? Okay.


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    Blondie wrote: So nudity is offensive, but asking questions about penis size and whether we like our men cut or uncut is not offensive? And mature? Okay.

    yeah....I wasn't going to mention the penis threads, but...

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    ehvwon wrote:

    so is all nudity offensive? Because nudity has been an artistic device for thousands of years.

    For starters: Woman from Willendorf from the Paleolithic Era




    The Toilette of Venus, by Peter Paul Rubens




    a voluptuous Odalisque by Delacroix




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    I let mine grow wild and free.

    After I split with my ex, I thought about getting it waxed--wild and free on a flawless, tight 18-year-old body is probably hotter than wild and free on a 32-year-old--but, my skin is soo sensitive. When I used to live in a beachy area, EVERYTHING I tried down there (shaving, waxing, sugaring, nair) made me break out in painful blotches. And it's expensive and has to be regularly maintained. And the kind of dudes I go for probably like the natural look anyway. But--I'm still on the fence. Someday I might take a virtual trip to Brazil.

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    ehvwon wrote:

    Controversial??

    Penis size and "cut or uncut" controversial?
    Maybe for an 11 year old

    ("Look at me, look at me, I am so hip talking about penises")

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    Blondie wrote: Darlings, Fashion is SUPPOSED to provoke and inspire. All good art does this. If you are concerned about your kid or your Boss seeing inappropriate things on your computer, then maybe you shouldn't be surfing the net whilst at work or with your kid on your lap. Especially when the heading is titled "Pubic hair". I just posted a nude picture of Madonna on another thread and no one is up in arms over that.

    I thought that picture was beautiful of
    Madonna. Seeing a 4 foot long pubic hair is not how i plan to inspire myself.

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    Nina wrote: Controversial?? Penis size and "cut or uncut" controversial? Maybe for an 11 year old ("Look at me, look at me, I am so hip talking about penises")


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    Bella wrote: I thought that picture was beautiful of Madonna. Seeing a 4 foot long pubic hair is not how i plan to inspire myself.

    Ya, that was gross. But I liked the feathers. I want a feathered bikini now.

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    I thought the guy had an interesting concept of "recycling" going on. That is, he would persuade ladies like me to chop off their long hair, then resell as "extensions".

    I found a lot of it quite artistic, but not in the least practical, for the reasons mentioned above.

    Bet he could do at least ten "do's" with my hair, but I'm not parting with it.

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    Blondie wrote: So nudity is offensive, but asking questions about penis size and whether we like our men cut or uncut is not offensive? And mature? Okay.

    I say anything goes on this site anything we are all adults kinda. Let's be nice now, and start a new thread and start attacking someone oulse, let'e be honest here this is not the a site to be restricting ourselves on what to say or post or not post. I say no dam rules let's all just say and post whatever we freaking feel like posting.

    Nudity is not offensive at all.

    Being able to post at will and just laugh at everything is what makes this site and has made it sooo interesting.

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    T.M. wrote: Quit editing, joolia. Excuse me for not wanting to get on here and see a bunch of bearded (literally) clams walking up and down a runway. Especially in full viewing range of my child.

    I don't mean to pick a fight TM but you seemed perfectly okay to have Miss Man Problem post a pic of her vagina on your "ahem de dum" thread the other day you asked her to.

    Do I sense double standards here?

    You said nothing when she did and even responded to her pic.

    Your dauther is super adorable, maybe next time don't sit her on your lap while on here or don't click on vagina or penis threads.

    Just my two cents I'm feeling bitchy today.

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    stripper stripe...... very sexy

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    ehvwon wrote:

    I also agree it definitely needed a NSFW tag. Lesson learned.

    Having said that, I really liked the video! I'd never do that myself but I have respect for the women who are confident enough with themselves to model like that. It was thought provoking, and that's what they set out to accomplish.

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    Chia wrote: I don't mean to pick a fight TM but you seemed perfectly okay to have Miss Man Problem post a pic of her vagina on your "ahem de dum" thread the other day you asked her to. Do I sense double standards here? You said nothing when she did and even responded to her pic. Your dauther is super adorable, maybe next time don't sit her on your lap while on here or don't click on vagina or penis threads. Just my two cents I'm feeling bitchy today.

    Don't be silly, you sure do mean to pick a fight. But that's ok. I'm more than willing to see where everyone else is coming from and I completely, 100% get why it's no big deal to any of you.

    It isn't to me, either, so long as little eyes don't see it. I wasn't expecting it, it caught me off guard, and god forbid, I got upset.

    I'm over it... I hope some of you follow suit.

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    Thank you to all who claim you will use the NSFW tag.

    That tag is more than a little bit important to me.


    When I'm at home, I don't care what gets posted (note: I may not say anything, but that's just cuz I'm aware that my students may stumble and have stumbled onto this site). When I'm at work, I really can't/shouldn't open some threads.

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    MEOW!!! I love it! There is actually a full moon tonight! If we all lived in a Vixen dorm together, we'd all be on our period at the same time.

    P.S. I don't watch any videos on AV. I don't want to invite a virus to my computer.

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    ehvwon wrote:

    I'm sorry, but GIVE ME A BREAK.

    Okay, I am NOT sorry.

    Give me a break!

    Posting a nude picture if offensive? But all your inane posts asking us all about how big a cock we like, and if we want one that is cut or uncut is not f*cked up?

    Hypocrisy!

    PS. I've had three too many cucumber martinis tonight and my truth serum is in full effect.

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    Raven wrote: MEOW!!! I love it! There is actually a full moon tonight! If we all lived in a Vixen dorm together, we'd all be on our period at the same time. P.S. I don't watch any videos on AV. I don't want to invite a virus to my computer.

    There was a full moon last night too!!

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    shave it, my dear. shaaave it.

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    ehvwon wrote:

    Nudity not appropriate for this website? FUCK off. If visual nudity is not appropriate, talk of penises, vaginas, breasts, sex and pubic hair shouldn't be either.

    Luckily, these are not decisions for you alone to make.

    To illustrate, here is a video of a naked woman:


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    Alek wrote: Nudity not appropriate for this website? FUCK off. If visual nudity is not appropriate, talk of penises, vaginas, breasts, sex and pubic hair shouldn't be either. Luckily, these are not decisions for you alone to make. To illustrate, here is a video of a naked woman:

    AAAAAARMPIT!



    lol. Geez. This thread got intense really fast.

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    ehvwon wrote:

    Come on Ev. we're all grown ups here...

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    ehvwon wrote:

    Being able to post at will and just laugh at everything is what makes this site and has made it sooo interesting.

    Yes EhvWon you are entitled to your opinion 100% I agree.
    What I don't agree on is on double standards. Not exactly talking bout' you.

    Posting artistic nudity should not offend anybody here, but it still might. I personally fully love and respect your post I love them.

    The original beef was with TM who was not offended with a vagina real life vagina on her screen and is now offended with braided ones. Please!!!

    For the record their is a difference between PORN and nudity I would be offended with porn on this site but anything oulse to me goes.

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    ehvwon wrote:

    Ha ha ha Look at me look at me I have lots of sex
    s

    Yes Marianna EvyWon is known for her double standards, for her and for editing her posts all the time. Specially after E Jean post something who goes against what Evy wrote or when her opinion is not the most popular.

    She is also know for trying to make rules that apply or not at her will and for ganging against other vixens.

    So AV, YOU fuck off.

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    Maggie wrote: Thank you to all who claim you will use the NSFW tag. That tag is more than a little bit important to me. When I'm at home, I don't care what gets posted (note: I may not say anything, but that's just cuz I'm aware that my students may stumble and have stumbled onto this site). When I'm at work, I really can't/shouldn't open some threads.

    Maggie the voice of reason, NSFW should and It would not be that hard to use. I agree out of respect for all of our more reserved vixens heck why not.

    But you are right I get on the internet when my boss leaves that way anything looked at is only seen by me. Even thought I should not either.

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    ehvwon wrote:

    No doubt.

    Though, reading between the lines often reveals more of what is being said than the written words themselves...

    Now let's all put our bursting-at-the-seams egos aside and continue talking about penises, please.

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    Alek wrote: No doubt. Though, reading between the lines often reveals more of what is being said than the written words themselves... Now let's all put our bursting-at-the-seams egos aside and continue talking about penises, please.

    Ok agree lets talk bout' your penis Alek. Ha just kidding.

    Peace and love.

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    Chia wrote: Ok agree lets talk bout' your penis Alek. Ha just kidding. Peace and love.

    It's fantastic and I know how to use it. That is all that has to be said.

    One Love.

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    Nina wrote: Ha ha ha Look at me look at me I have lots of sex s Yes Marianna EvyWon is known for her double standards, for her and for editing her posts all the time. Specially after E Jean post something who goes against what Evy wrote or when her opinion is not the most popular. She is also know for trying to make rules that apply or not at her will and for ganging against other vixens. So AV, YOU fuck off.

    Dang.

    If you have something to say, why not post as your real identity? If there is anything to be gained, it would be much more well received with honesty and respect.

    I respect AV1, but I didn't agree when she implied that I was immature and inappropriate and I let her know.

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    Alek wrote: It's fantastic and I know how to use it. That is all that has to be said. One Love.

    Alek sweety why don't you post another pic of your uneven tan this one with no shirt on. Then maybe we can advice better.

    Look at me I'm all over you I did not get any last night. Ha !

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    Chia wrote: Alek sweety why don't you post another pic of your uneven tan this one with no shirt on. Then maybe we can advice better. Look at me I'm all over you I did not get any last night. Ha !

    The blinding flash of pale would break your computer screen.

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    Back to bush. Well, my bush, anyway. I pretty much leave well enough alone except I shave the bikini area to ensure no hair is hanging out of a bathing suit.

    For what it's worth, Alex Comfort extols the pleasure of pubes in The New Joy of Sex (see pages 70-71).

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    Schmendrick wrote: Back to bush. Well, my bush, anyway. I pretty much leave well enough alone except I shave the bikini area to ensure no hair is hanging out of a bathing suit. For what it's worth, Alex Comfort extols the pleasure of pubes in The New Joy of Sex (see pages 70-71).

    I found a vintage copy of The Joy of Sex in my house...


    It is pretty hilarious. Some of it actually makes sense.

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    I don't find nudity offensive in any manner. Nor penis talks. We are all adults here.
    Now I do agree that perhaps it would be wise to give a warning to posted threads with viewer advisory discretion (adult and or violent/offensive material)...IF there was such a thing in here. But I have never seen any explicit sex nor beheaded body in here yet.
    I guess there is a blatant difference in between what each vixen finds offensive.



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    Keka wrote: I don't find nudity offensive in any manner. Nor penis talks. We are all adults here. Now I do agree that perhaps it would be wise to give a warning to posted threads with viewer advisory discretion (adult and or violent/offensive material)...IF there was such a thing in here. But I have never seen any explicit sex nor beheaded body in here yet. I guess there is a blatant difference in between what each vixen finds offensive.

    I think there is a blatant difference in between what each vixen finds offensive on any given day. lol.

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    Julia wrote: I think there is a blatant difference in between what each vixen finds offensive on any given day. lol.

    We are hormonally fluctuating creatures!

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    Julia wrote: I found a vintage copy of The Joy of Sex in my house... It is pretty hilarious. Some of it actually makes sense.

    The Joy of Sex epitomized forbidden books for me and my grammar school chums during the mid-late 1970s. We were all a twitter when when one of our set discovered that her parents owned a copy. Our efforts to sneak a peek at the illustrations of copulating couples were not unlike a keystone cops comedy.

    I own the 1991 edition that features updated illustrations (the couples no longer look as though they just arrived from the planet with no razors as they did in the original edition) and the addition of black and white photos.

    Specifically, what did you find amusing? What made sense?

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    Alek wrote: No doubt. Though, reading between the lines often reveals more of what is being said than the written words themselves... Now let's all put our bursting-at-the-seams egos aside and continue talking about penises, please.

    As someone who was once asked to post sex questions by above, why has it not occurred to anyone that this is what AV1 was asked to do? She gives the most measured, consistent, warm advice on here, and her objecting to the nudity (which I think many of us would have disagreed with if we had the option of responding anonymously) seems much more true to her personality than asking what size penis people like.

    Instead of giving her the benefit of the doubt, you descended on her like ravenous bitches and ripped her apart. That's really kind and fair, isn't it?

    The worker drones are asked to do all kinds of things behind the scenes. Think about that.

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    Chia wrote: Being able to post at will and just laugh at everything is what makes this site and has made it sooo interesting. Yes EhvWon you are entitled to your opinion 100% I agree. What I don't agree on is on double standards. Not exactly talking bout' you. Posting artistic nudity should not offend anybody here, but it still might. I personally fully love and respect your post I love them. The original beef was with TM who was not offended with a vagina real life vagina on her screen and is now offended with braided ones. Please!!! For the record their is a difference between PORN and nudity I would be offended with porn on this site but anything oulse to me goes.

    Do you read everything or just the things you want to see?

    Seriously, if you want to have a big ol' bitch fest with me, find something real. If the original beef was with me, why are you all up in it?

    I've explained myself, Julia explained herself, apologies were made, lights out, end of story.

    Quit trying to fuel it. Read a book or something.

    As for AV1, she didn't say ANYTHING other than she didn't like the picture or video and everyone has stuck her in the bullseye of shittobitchaboutthisverymoment.

    Hormones. Full moon. Lack of sex. Crappy job. Whatever the cause of all this bickering - it remains retarded.

    We don't have to like one another, but this is a place that should remain full of respect, encouragement, and hopefully forgiveness.

    Think about what newcomers would think if this were the very first thread they stumbled upon.

    Wouldn't leave a very good taste in their mouths.

    I think disagreements are healthy, good, and necessary, but back biting and abrasive bitchery should be squashed.

    I know I jumped down Julia's throat and acted like a freakin' baby, she knew it too, and called me on it, which in that moment, made it worse for my tantrum. Took only a couple hours for me to laugh at my ridiculousness and be willing to let it go... what I can't figure out is why some of you jumped in head first and are still hanging tight to it.

    AV1 is one of the most decent human beings on this planet and does not deserve some spineless dillydouche creating a side account to talk trash.

    So please, ladies and gents, watch the video, cringe or clap with delight, play with your pubes and if you're still all hung up on all of this, yank on your over-growth until you're so consumed with pain you forget your name.


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    T.M. wrote: Do you read everything or just the things you want to see? Seriously, if you want to have a big ol' bitch fest with me, find something real. If the original beef was with me, why are you all up in it? I've explained myself, Julia explained herself, apologies were made, lights out, end of story. Quit trying to fuel it. Read a book or something. As for AV1, she didn't say ANYTHING other than she didn't like the picture or video and everyone has stuck her in the bullseye of shittobitchaboutthisverymoment. Hormones. Full moon. Lack of sex. Crappy job. Whatever the cause of all this bickering - it remains retarded. We don't have to like one another, but this is a place that should remain full of respect, encouragement, and hopefully forgiveness. Think about what newcomers would think if this were the very first thread they stumbled upon. Wouldn't leave a very good taste in their mouths. I think disagreements are healthy, good, and necessary, but back biting and abrasive bitchery should be squashed. I know I jumped down Julia's throat and acted like a freakin' baby, she knew it too, and called me on it, which in that moment, made it worse for my tantrum. Took only a couple hours for me to laugh at my ridiculousness and be willing to let it go... what I can't figure out is why some of you jumped in head first and are still hanging tight to it. AV1 is one of the most decent human beings on this planet and does not deserve some spineless dillydouche creating a side account to talk trash. So please, ladies and gents, watch the video, cringe or clap with delight, play with your pubes and if you're still all hung up on all of this, yank on your over-growth until you're so consumed with pain you forget your name.

    You should speak for yourself without trying to gang up by defending AV to get some support to back you up. She, for once, is one of the most respected vixens in here, and whereas I completely disagree with her statements in this thread, my respect is still standing.
    You, on the other hand, expect to spit senseless crap without first thinking twice, to later tweak it and twist it and apologize just because "you got over it".

    The impression you leave of yourself, though, it doesn't turn around so sharply as your mood and opinions.

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    Keka wrote: You should speak for yourself without trying to gang up by defending AV to get some support to back you up. She, for once, is one of the most respected vixens in here, and whereas I completely disagree with her statements in this thread, my respect is still standing. You, on the other hand, expect to spit senseless crap without first thinking twice, to later tweak it and twist it and apologize just because "you got over it". The impression you leave of yourself, though, it doesn't turn around so sharply as your mood and opinions.

    I don't need, nor want support. My defense of my friend is that and only that. I don't have hidden agendas. And one more time, just for you, I don't edit my comments. IF I do, I say so.

    And yeah Keka, apologizing happens when people get over it. Sometimes even before then.

    I would never assume you to understand that, though.


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    Schmendrick wrote: The Joy of Sex epitomized forbidden books for me and my grammar school chums during the mid-late 1970s. We were all a twitter when when one of our set discovered that her parents owned a copy. Our efforts to sneak a peek at the illustrations of copulating couples were not unlike a keystone cops comedy. I own the 1991 edition that features updated illustrations (the couples no longer look as though they just arrived from the planet with no razors as they did in the original edition) and the addition of black and white photos. Specifically, what did you find amusing? What made sense?

    I found some of the VERY hairy illustrations amusing, as well as the "sexy" costume sections.

    Alot of the chapters on cooperation and acceptance as the first steps towards a healthy sex life made very much sense to me.

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    T.M. wrote: I don't need, nor want support. My defense of my friend is that and only that. I don't have hidden agendas. And one more time, just for you, I don't edit my comments. IF I do, I say so. And yeah Keka, apologizing happens when people get over it. Sometimes even before then. I would never assume you to understand that, though.

    Ahhh, the nostalgia... It's just like the good old days!

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    Alek wrote: Ahhh, the nostalgia... It's just like the good old days!

    This thread needs to die.



    Hey Alek. how's it going?

    I feel like such a shit-stirrer for posting that video, even though I had no idea it would escalate to such proportions.

    blame the full moon. AHHHHOOOOOOOOO!


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    T.M. wrote: I don't need, nor want support. My defense of my friend is that and only that. I don't have hidden agendas. And one more time, just for you, I don't edit my comments. IF I do, I say so. And yeah Keka, apologizing happens when people get over it. Sometimes even before then. I would never assume you to understand that, though.

    Most definitely I don't understand. When I say something, its because I mean it. Hence I stand my ground.
    Provoking without solid argument, to later apologize, is as good as opening your mouth to let the flies in. I have seen you do it repeatedly since I started seeing you here.

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    Keka wrote: Most definitely I don't understand. When I say something, its because I mean it. Hence I stand my ground. Provoking without solid argument, to later apologize, is as good as opening your mouth to let the flies in. I have seen you do it repeatedly since I started seeing you here.

    Keka. TM is immature, and a troublemaker. Steer clear, and let it go, darlin'


    xoxoxo

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    Alek wrote: Ahhh, the nostalgia... It's just like the good old days!

    Not quite, we're missing my shit stirring, immature other half.

    *edit* Not my husband, but the other guy.



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    WOW! I missed a good one!! You girls have gone wild!

    Let's see - my opinion (because I know all involved have been waiting on pins and needles for it) --->

    Okay, I thought some of the first written responses were pretty disgusting! I gave me a visual I did not need....I tend to have a habit of visualizing EVERYTHING. BUT who gives a rats' ass, right? I mean, everyone is free to express whatever they want and to obvs be as many personalities as they want to be. (I can only be me, btw.) A/y, the first gross comments I found more offensive than the pics. Just goes to show, we are all different.

    If I don't agree with someone and think it worth the while to speak my mind, I do it as me. I guess I take pleasure in letting people "see" my personality. Otherwise, how would you know that I am smart, sharp, creative and sometimes kookie?

    Nudes don't offend me. I do agree that the WARNING would be good for those who spend their working hours playing on here (i.e. most of us).

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    T.M. wrote: Not quite, we're missing my shit stirring, immature other half. *edit* Not my husband, but the other guy.

    I developed high blood pressure because of him.

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    p.s. Drone & Nina - I sure wish I knew who you are!

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    I need to apologize for my last post about "if you think about it, you'll know I'm right." It was wrong of me to say and I don't really feel that way in a sober state of mind. I am sorry to anyone I turned off or offended, if someone said that to me when I had a differing opinion, I would be pissed to. So, in all sincerity I am truly sorry it came out of my mouth.

    The true beauty of AV is everyone's right to their own opinion and I am sorry that I forced mine on anyone else.

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    ehvwon wrote: I need to apologize for my last post about "if you think about it, you'll know I'm right." It was wrong of me to say and I don't really feel that way in a sober state of mind. I am sorry to anyone I turned off or offended, if someone said that to me when I had a differing opinion, I would be pissed to. So, in all sincerity I am truly sorry it came out of my mouth. The true beauty of AV is everyone's right to their own opinion and I am sorry that I forced mine on anyone else.

    Apology totally accepted by me. We love you, AV1!

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    Alek wrote: I developed high blood pressure because of him.

    Funny, he has the opposite effect on me. Make me laugh and calms me right down.

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    T.M. wrote: Funny, he has the opposite effect on me. Make me laugh and calms me right down.

    Whenever he wasn't arguing with me, he was hilarious.

    (Come on, Vixens, only a few more posts and this will be the Most Popular question EVER on Advice Vixens!)

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    Alek wrote: Whenever he wasn't arguing with me, he was hilarious. (Come on, Vixens, only a few more posts and this will be the Most Popular question EVER on Advice Vixens!)

    He never argued with you... he liked to push your man buttons and watch you squirm... which if I recall, you enjoyed doing to him, too.

    Marlene, group hugs scare me, one at a time with lingering moments sound much more titillating.

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    And PS, Alek, I'm insulted. I had the most popular posts, EVER.

    One was up over 170 I believe.


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    Alek wrote: Apology totally accepted by me. We love you, AV1!

    Ditto and double ditto!!

    Now, can someone please post on my capital punishment thread so it comes in #2 after this one?

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    T.M. wrote: And PS, Alek, I'm insulted. I had the most popular posts, EVER. One was up over 170 I believe.

    Oh yeah... I forgot those were blown to smithereens.

    Edit: The Most Popular Existing question.

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    Blondie wrote: Ditto and double ditto!! Now, can someone please post on my capital punishment thread so it comes in #2 after this one?

    I will write an auto-posting script and boost my own question before letting you prostitute yours!

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    Lol....


    does everyone love everyone again?


    now the most popular post can be MINE!

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    as usual i missed everything, but that video was freaking HILARIOUS. Since I shave it all off, I could paste on a feather one and hit the streets of LA. Awesome.
    As for the rest of the squabbling...c'est la vie.

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    Les wrote: as usual i missed everything, but that video was freaking HILARIOUS. Since I shave it all off, I could paste on a feather one and hit the streets of LA. Awesome. As for the rest of the squabbling...c'est la vie.

    picturing you wearing feather pubes....




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    I finally watched the video. Given the amount of time and energy many of us dedicate to down there hair removal, the designer's pubeture is perhaps authentically subversive?

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    I have my hunches on who Nina and Drone might be.

    My advice to them is to read up on the Dalai Lama.

    Regarding pubes, I used that shaper I got and made a heart. It was crooked, so I took it all off. Will try again when have enough fur.

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    Raven wrote: I have my hunches on who Nina and Drone might be. My advice to them is to read up on the Dalai Lama. Regarding pubes, I used that shaper I got and made a heart. It was crooked, so I took it all off. Will try again when have enough fur.

    Who do you think they are??

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    Raven wrote: I have my hunches on who Nina and Drone might be. My advice to them is to read up on the Dalai Lama. Regarding pubes, I used that shaper I got and made a heart. It was crooked, so I took it all off. Will try again when have enough fur.

    fur...lol


    and yeah, who do you think they are, anyway? I wish I could post anon. I have my hunches, as well, but I don't want to name names.

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    im ure venus im ure fire ure desire

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    Hal wrote: im ure venus im ure fire ure desire

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